Now, over the years, things had come and gone off and on my list, but travelling to Japan stayed in the #1 spot. For years and years on end, Japan was all I could think about. And when opportunity to go and live there for a year knocked, I ran to answer.
During my time in Japan, I met a boy and fell in love. We had a relationship for 4 years and I thought he was the one. My new #1 was being with him through life and travelling around the world together. But when life turned cruel and things didn't work out, I can honestly say, that for a long time, I was lost. I really didn't know what to do with my life. I knew the travel bug was itching in the back of my brain again, and this time, I started to scratch. I found myself looking back on the SWAP website for places to go, things to see and do. And it hit me. My #1 spot will always belong to travel.
Travel is my passion in life, whether I am going to another country, or just another city. Road trips, long flights, train rides...I looked forward to them because I knew they brought me closer to somewhere I've never been before. To that restaurant based on a friends recommendation, or a day trip to the zoo, decided on pure whimsy. The need for me to go an explore will always be in my heart. Which is one of the many reasons I decided on a compass for my first tattoo. I even remember my mom telling me that she has known since I was very little that I would never stay in our little town.
So for my bucket list, I feel mine's a little different. My list is broken down into many sub-categories. The first thing on my list is travel. And underneath that is all the places I want to visit, and the things those cities offer. Next is my list of things I would like to do. Learn multiple languages, learn to knit, learn to cook fancy meals, learn to organize better....After that comes the dreams I can't exactly control. Get married, have kids, become a grandmother who spoils her grandchildren and tells silly other kids to "Get off my lawn you rascals!" while never really meaning it. It's actually a quite extensive list.
I've yet to accomplish most things on my list, but I think if I can conquer at least 1 thing every year and cross it off, I'm doing ok. How does your list look?
One of the flaws of the bucket list: you have to be selfish:
ReplyDeleteIt has one item on mine: be complete. My soul is still held together in a box you've hidden somewhere and one day i will find a life where i will have a photo of you sitting on an empty wooden box on a fireplace and when people ask about it, i will say "this was once the only person who believed i can still be human and never stopped believing and is the reason im here now"
Selfish, i know.